3 THINGS: FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP

1. Honesty

It is really difficult to give everything to someone. Nowadays, I will admit that it is difficult to give even your facebook passwords and other social networking sites' information to the person you love. I couldn't tell anything about the pre-steps that you need to do whenever it’s the time or not to give your social networking information to your lovers. (You’re the only person who will know that.) Not me neither your bestfriend. 

In younger generations, the frequent reason of breaking up is because of flirting and third party. The common medium is internet. It is very convenient for us to know different people through facebook, twitters, emails and other sites. So in order to prevent it, you need someone who will check and balance everything.

It’s more of a psychological thing, that if you think that the person you love, look after on your cyber activities. You wouldn't think of doing something that might affect your relationship.

2. Understanding

It’s common for couples to fight because of various reasons. We can’t help that kind of situation. However, there is a leeway in order for you to deal with this.

Whenever your lover is trying to start a fight about a particular reason, think in a wider range. You need to think of the core reason why it happened. You just need to realize that everything happened for a reason. He or she will not just get angry without any reason at all. You need to think in a different perspective.

It’s difficult for you to know if you’re the one committed a mistake because you will find thousands of ways to defend yourself.

Try to ask yourself, “Will I feel the same way if she/he did that thing to me?”

3. Sweetness

At the time that you saw someone and you hardly fell in love with him/her. It’s difficult think of the things that will make that person happy. Everyone wants to be admired, we all wanted to be loved. We think of myriads of ways to please a person. When you fall in love, you just need to do those things that will make that person smile.

In love, you don’t need to sustain any level of courtships. It is not the same as giving grades to your students and thinking of starting from the very lowest grade in the first quarter. Then, as you move to the next quarters, you need to give higher grades. Often teachers are very careful of not giving the highest in the first quarter because they say that they can't sustain.

When you have a special person in life, you just need to do new things as often as you can. You don’t need to think of sustaining any levels. You just need to be more creative and resourceful how to make something that will make that person smile every day, every hour, every minute and every second.

You don’t need to buy expensive things during your monthly and yearly celebration. You can make a card. You write letters. You can make notes. You can print out some of her/his pictures and make a collage. Those simple things with effort will truly make that person happy.